Sharon SalzbergThe paradigm for our relationships is formed from our earliest experiences and is actually hardwired into our neurological and emotional network.
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The paradigm for our relationships is formed from our earliest experiences and is actually hardwired into our neurological and emotional network. In other words, our ideals of what a relationship should be are formed from the way we were parented. If you were parented by a child-hating, belittling individual, you will find it very difficult to find a healthy relationship with someone who has the same value system, because it will be a struggle to survive that paradigm. You can battle your former paradigm all your life, but there's no escaping it.
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